Practice and Get Good at Approaching [EXERCISE]
Want to get good at approaching, I’ll show you exactly how to practice and get better.
Night time openers:
Hi, you guys look fun, I had to come over and meet you.
Day time opener:
*Walk up from behind.*
“Excuse me, I know this is random, but I think you’re really cute and I had to come over and meet you.”
“My name is *insert your name*”
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Couple of videos, like this one, has some blank sections in them like from 4:40 to 9:30
Also clicking on the name right above this textbox takes me straight to wordpress admin dashboard
Excellent stuff, the vid cuts off at about 4.40, is it meant to do that?
Why are parts of the video just black, what happens with your editing skill Mike
Hey guys
Thanks for letting me know, I just updated the video. I fixed the blank spaces, so it’s all good now.
If you guys have any feedbacks., feel free to send hem to
Mike@instaconnection.tv
Enjoy.
-Mike
PS. Don’t forget to practice.
When are you going to upload more new stuff?
We will be uploading every month. Stay tuned.
This is incredible info, so the basis of this program is that we are getting one video a month
You’re getting 6 videos a month. 2 are topics (w/ infield examples). 2 are full infield pull videos. 2 is for exercises.
for section two does it allow me to view the videos every month on the same day my order was processed? I noticed that section two is out but i am unable to view anything from the tab.
Yup, you’ll get new content (aka 6 new videos) every 30 days, starting from the day you signed up.
Hey Mike, I just subscribed to your website and I have this trouble of going out (I go out 2-4x a week) going to the mall, going to the bookstore, grocery store…and I’m a natural, but I only approach like once or twice, and the interactions last less than a minute. I’m trying to get out of being so selective with who I talk to…how do you get out of this? Do you approach the grannies when the stores are empty?
Thanks for the videos. Is there a line I could use where a girl (or most likely one of her friends) asks you to buy the girl a drink within the first minute of interaction?
What you want to do is to not say yes or no. If you say yes, you’re basically a sucker. If you say no, then you could potentially blow the set. What you do is say “I’ll do it in a bit” and then try and change the subject. Say its too early, say you’re still waiting for your friend. Hopefully when you stall, they will forget about it in a bit.
Hey, Mike. I’m not a newbie in pick-up. When I see a cute girl, within 3 seconds I figure out what i need to say and for many times it works well. You say that I should use 5 direct, 5 observational and 5 neutral approaches. I’m used to my old system what I have to say to the girl and it seems to me that I would be constrained if I have to remember every time what type of approach I should use when instead I could use approach that works best for me. So, should I really try all those types of approaches that you mentioned on the video?
Every advice in pickup is just general guidelines. There are no absolutes. Different openers teach different skill sets. The point of trying all three is to get a feel of each. You don’t have to use a perfect 5, 5, 5 ratio. Maybe one day you can go all direct. One day you can go all observational, or one day go all neutral. And of course if one type feels natural and is the best option for a specific set, use it. What you don’t want to do is do a whole year of purely direct because now you don’t know how to use the other two and you end up doing direct at a company picnic and then get sent to HR for sexual harassment. Does this make sense?
In summary, use what you feel is natural but try all three the best you can.
I work till 6 on Sunday. How do I work around this schedule.